Bob Proctor: Change Your Paradigm, Change Your Life

Bob Proctor, World’s foremost Life and Business Coach, who recently spoke at Pendulum Resurgence guides you through the tools that will change the course of your life. They are the essentials that will lead you to an understanding of how you can actually multiply your results by a factor of 12, now! 

Part 1: Just think….

How nice would it be to turn your annual income into a monthly income? 

Most often, when a person first hears that, they have a difficult time with it. But after a short period of time their attitude starts to change.

By really focusing on you, you can actually create your own personal economy. 

We are God’s highest form of creation. There’s nothing on the planet that will equal us. And if we build an idea in our mind, we can execute that idea and have it move into physical form. 

So that’s what we’re talking about here – creating a monthly income out of your annual income.

You and I are only limited…

This is emitted by weakness of attention and poverty of imagination. Our imagination is the greatest tool we’ve got. It’ll take us anywhere we want to go and when we go there then we can turn that into results. Sounds preposterous to some people but it’s really not. Many years ago a great author wrote in his essay on self-reliance – there’s going to come a time in the unfoldment of a person’s education when they’re going to realise that ‘envy is ignorance and imitation is suicide.’

Envy is ignorance…

Take this as an example: 

I used to look at other people and envy them because I was broke. I was unhappy I wasn’t doing anything of any consequence and I was watching them with all kinds of money and beautiful futures and I couldn’t do it. So I would envy them. What I didn’t realise is that I have exactly the same potential locked up in as they have. I just wasn’t aware of how to utilise it.

Imitation is suicide…

Insist on yourself; never imitate. There’s no way you can be like anybody else. We shouldn’t even want to be like anybody else. We are God’s highest form of creation. And we’re unique. 

With those two concepts in mind, let’s talk about growth…

Ask yourself: 

What do you want to grow? We want everything to expand and be better in our life and if we’re going to experience growth, we’ve got to experience change. 

Change Is Inevitable, Personal Growth Is A Choice… 

Theorist Richard Buckminster Fuller put it very well when he said – you never change things by fighting existing reality to change things. You build a new model.

Paradigms…

A paradigm is the only way to bridge the gap between how you’re currently living and how you want to live. To shape your future, you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm.

Think of it as a mental program that has almost exclusive control over our habitual behaviour…and almost all of our behaviour is habitual.

Paradigms are a multitude of habits passed down from generation to generation.

They are the way you view yourself, the world and opportunity.

Paradigms are how you approach change and challenges. In other words, most of our behaviour is done automatically.

Research suggests that of the people that are held back from promotion (that are held back from moving ahead), nearly 30% of them are held back by deficiency in understanding or knowledge. 70% are held back because they don’t do what they already know how to do. That’s the Paradigm problem! 

How Paradigms Are Formed…

Let’s consider how Paradigms can appear in your everyday life…

Have you ever known someone who was painfully shy? Perhaps that’s you – ever wonder how they got that way?

Or perhaps someone who is habitually angry it seems; upset at every turn in life and unable to see the positive in any situation regardless of its presence.

Maybe you know someone who has battled fluctuating weight for years, decades even. They seem to be on track for a while, getting healthy and dropping pounds yet they always seem to bounce back to where they once were.

Well, it’s all controlled by Paradigms, YOUR Paradigms.

And they can even affect your bank account, controlling what you believe you can achieve financially without you even knowing it.

But the key to freeing yourself from these Paradigms, or mental programming, is awareness and understanding of them. Couple that with a little bit of faith and you’re on your way to real and true FREEDOM!

Faith based on understanding is the true key to freedom – blind faith is useless. The first bump in the road it’s gone.

When you’re doing something that’s out of the ordinary, the paradigm tries to stop you. However, if you want to win, you have to keep going.

You can find your paradigms masked in complacency, fear, worry, anxiety, insecurities, self-doubt, mental hurry and self-loathing – the result is keeping you STUCK, locked in a box … starved of your dreams and ambitions.

This change is not easy, but it is so worth it. And the results are lasting.

How To Determine What Your Paradigm Is…

The best way to identify your paradigm is to look at your current results. So I encourage you to take a few moments to picture your life and consider the following questions …

  • Does your day begin with purpose and gratitude?
  • Do you move through your day with laser focus or are you easily distracted, unable to finish anything?
  • What’s the most money you have ever made in a year?
  • Are you living the way you really want to live? If not, why not?

Answering these and similar questions will help you zero in on your paradigm, and identify what’s controlling the results you are getting in your life.

The good news is if you’re not happy with your results, and you’d like to do better, you can do something about it.

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